My visit was genuinely painful. I shared that the procedure was painful, but she did not listen nor take me seriously. It hurt so badly that I cried. She insisted that it was not pain, but instead anxiety about having sex because I was a virgin. (What?!! Definitely not anxiety, because sex was something that I have been waiting to experience with my husband in marriage. Believe me, we were looking forward to it!!) It was an incredibly unprofessional situation that scarred me for life.