It has been 16 years since my surgery and it has not be as you said. You coaxed me to have my prostate removed, claiming if I didn't I would be very unhappy when I turned 62 . Well it didn't take that long after you operated on me, I was very unhappy at 50 and I totally believe you knew that I would be. To remove my prostate was a terrible thing to do to me and also my wife but I'm sure you really didn't care how much it would hurt us. A compassionate person would not have operated on a patient without demanding a second opinion, but when I suggested a second opinion would just confirm what you told me you just agreed. At the time I had three small children at home and was spending way to much time at the doctor's office, so I gave into your insistence that you remove my prostate. After I told you I was unhappy you calmly said well why did you let me operate. You didn't remember all the time you told me I had to have my prostate removed. I can only hope something tragic happens to you and you lead a very unhappy life because in my case it would be justice.