Dr. Julia C Gray, MD

She could not retain any information during a routine check-up; got all mixed-up and forgot to provide the papers and information requested. The staff was friendly.

Horrible experience with Dr. Gray. Made insensitive comments and remarks about the exam. Made it clear she doesn't believe in abdominal sonograms. Was rude and abrupt. WILL NEVER USE THIS DOCTOR AGAIN.

I went to Dr. Gray scared and worried about a private condition I thought I might have had. She treated me like I was wasting her time and barely even wanted to run any tests. When I expressed my worry to her she said "Ok, so what even if you do have that... Everyone has that." She also informed me that she basically was not going to waste time to mail me my results and I should call "sometime" the following week to find out. She offered me no tips, or information about my situation and treated me like more of an annoyance then anything else. I went to her scared and uninformed and she managed to make me feel stupid on top of it. She doesn't deserve to be an ob/ gyn and work with patients.

Dr. Gray was really rude. I told her that I was having unprotected sex and I wanted to have a check up. She asked me if I was on birth control now and I told her I just started. Dr.Gray asked me if I wasn't using a contraceptive, why was I having sex then ?. That's an appropriate question to ask you patient but the way she said it and her facial expressions made it seem like she was disgusted And as if she was trying to make me feel stupid. I felt very uncomfortable after She asked me that. She also made a comment on how shaving your vagina is stupid.... I shave my vagina and she performed a Pap smear -_-

Dr. Gray needs to work on her bedside manner; shes too mature in age to treat her patients the way she does. I found her to be standoffish, and rude. Her attitude was as if she didnt want to be bothered. She offered no eye contact. She asked who my previous provider was and in short told me I should go back to her. Im sorry but I thought I had the right to choose my providers. Needless to say, after the exam she was not available to answer any questions that I had. In my opinion gynecology is a specialty in which respect and excellent beside manner should be given. That is not the case with Dr. Gray. I would not recommend her to my worst enemy. If she is no longer happy with what she is doing, she needs to retire.

Dr. Gray's professionalism, courtesy, and bedside manner definitely need some work. On my first visit, I mentioned that I was dealing with a lot of stress at work...her recommendation was "quit your job." In addition, she looked me up and down and told me to eat a salad (I had gained some weight, but how rude!). After taking the birth control pills she prescribed, I mentioned that I was experiencing side effects (nausea, headaches, etc.), and she told me it was all in my head, and that I was just pretending! These are common symptoms of birth control, so I was shocked at her rudeness and dismissive behavior. I most definitely would not recommend her...there are lots of other talented OB-Gyns in Stamford.