I would not recommend this OB-GYN based on my experience throughout pregnancy and postpartum care.
From the beginning, there was a consistent lack of attention to detail. She repeatedly asked the same basic questions—like the date of my last period and both mine and my partner’s birth weights—at multiple appointments, as though she had never reviewed my chart. It made me feel like I was just another patient to get through quickly, not someone she was actually paying attention to.
When I told her I only had six weeks of maternity leave, she offered a C-section so I could get eight weeks off—with no medical reason. She was not joking. It felt incredibly dismissive of the real challenges new moms face and showed a total lack of empathy. She even compared my situation to hers, saying she only got six weeks off too—presumably decades ago.
When I brought up concerns about gestational diabetes, I asked if I could monitor my blood sugars at home as an alternative to the glucose tolerance… test. She told me that wasn’t an option, only the 2- or 3-hour test. Later, after I’d gone out of my way to buy the supplies and started tracking on my own, she casually said, “Oh, I could’ve ordered those for you.” It was frustrating and showed a lack of flexibility or patient-centered care.
During a brief nutrition discussion, I mentioned I had been eating feta cheese but made sure it was pasteurized. She responded by saying she once had a patient who ate feta cheese and their baby died. This was incredibly inappropriate and fear-inducing. I had done my due diligence, and instead of reassurance or guidance, she offered a worst-case anecdote with no context. It felt like an attempt to scare rather than support me.
During our second trimester ultrasound—before we even knew the sex—she made a joke about how “the baby could always change their gender later.” Moments later, she revealed the sex, and then asked if we wanted to know. Thankfully, we did—but for families who want it to be a surprise, that would have been devastating. The moment felt disrespectful and flippant.
Throughout my prenatal care, she never asked how I was doing emotionally, never asked if I had questions, and often ended appointments abruptly. When I shared that I wanted an unmedicated, natural birth, she briefly acknowledged it and immediately changed the topic to vaccines, without any further discussion or support.
She used outdated and insensitive language—like referring to my estimated due date as my “date of confinement.” She pressured me to go to the hospital on my due date, even though I wasn’t in labor, and guilted me for declining cervical checks. At one point she said, “We wouldn’t want a big baby,” as justification for early delivery. That kind of thinking is outdated and not evidence-based—babies grow at different rates, and size alone is not a reason to induce without other medical concerns.
Even at my six-week postpartum visit, she brought up the fact that I hadn’t gone to the hospital on my due date. She told me that in the future, if providers asked why I delivered “so late,” it would be because I went against her advice. It felt like she was still blaming me, weeks later, for making an informed choice about my own labor.
Consent was a major issue. On one occasion, she walked into the room already gloved, placed her hand on my thigh, and began preparing to do a cervical check—without asking for permission or explaining what she was doing. At another visit, when I was actually open to a check, she again performed it without ever asking. Cervical exams are medical procedures and should always require explicit consent. This kind of behavior was invasive, presumptive, and completely inappropriate.
To top it off, at my postpartum checkup, she flippantly asked if I was “capable of turning a computer on and off” before checking a box to clear me for return to work. I didn’t even feel comfortable asking for more time off after that. During the same appointment, she
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